People spend the majority of there lives putting other people first.
What do you think you are going to gain from spending your whole life trying to impress other people? Absolutely nothing…
So, question is, why is it SO IMPORTANT to put yourself first:
- You will make yourself ill if you forget to look after YOU
You’ll get so caught up in other people’s problems, that you will completely forget about your mental health. So if you feel like it’s all too overwhelming, you need to know when to say no and when to stop and think about YOU. At the end of the day, the only person who truly cares about you is you!
- You will end up seriously unhappy
If your thinking about others instead of yourself,
yourjust going to end up feeling like sh*t and unhappy. Put your happiness first, always.
- You will forget who YOU ARE
Everyone needs time to focus on themselves and remember WHO THE F*CK THEY ARE. Rather than getting caught up in other people’s stresses. So if your spending so much time worrying about other people, it’s time to forget them for a second, and remember who YOU are and how you can help yourself, instead of helping others…
I absolutely love helping other people, but I have the ability to switch off from other people’s problems and not allow it to affect me. You have to be strong enough to help people and listen to there problems. If you’re a sensitive soul, you will end up taking on everyone else’s problems and making yourself hella stressed, and that’s absolutely NOT worth it.
You have one life, don’t allow other people’s problems to bring you down and ruin it.