Bitchiness is just the most ridiculous form of ‘conversation’ ever invented on planet earth! And realistically if you are a culprit of ‘bitching’ then this blog is for you.
I can’t lie, through year 7-9 in secondary school I definitely cared what people thought about me and I definitely judged other people, until I realised that I was just jealous of them, and wanted what they had. It took me a while to realise it, but when I did it fully changed my whole mindset.
The moment I stopped hanging around the wrong people was when I noticed a change in my attitude, and instead of bitching about people I would notice why I envied them and turn it into a positive and tell them to their face! “I really envy your shoes
WHY THE HELL WOULDN’T SOMEONE DESERVE A PAIR OF SHOES??
Bitching is such a dangerous cycle and it genuinely comes from jealousy and being self-conscious. And even though this is what your mum has probably told you your whole life, it is so true! And until you step out of that mindset you won’t realise how silly that thought is…
So ask yourself this, what were you thinking when you saw that girl in the club, snatched in her designer? What were you thinking when you saw that beautiful girl with perfect eyelashes staring at your man from across the room? You know what I’m talking about don’t you? Ask yourself are they the problem or are you?
Time to change the negative daggers in our mind to positive reinforcement towards others. What ‘they’ have or don’t have does not, and never will, affect you. Ruining someone else’s day doesn’t make yours any better (probably worse). And think about just how good you’d feel about yourself after a day of good deeds, new friends, making someone else smile and fresh conversations. We can ALL do more to help our souls by warming up someone else’s!