I don’t know if anyone has noticed, but on a night out, 99.9% of the time I don’t have any assets out. Either it’s a tracksuit/co-ord of some sort, if my legs are on show, my arms probably won’t be, if my top half is cropped, I’ll probably clean up the bottom half, if it’s summer and we’re all dying of the heat, of course I’ll wear a dress/crop top and skort but my assets will never be purposely out – EVER. This is something I’m pretty cautious and respectful of. Plus comfort is priority with me!
It’s sad to know a lot of women feel like they have to show an asset to turn heads..this is NOT the case.
Girl, don’t feel like you HAVE to have your bum eating your trousers, or nearly out of your dress, or boobs out with the worlds largest push up bra for people to notice you. You wan’t to be noticed for more than that, and you deserve to be💎.
Here are some tips to take with you on a night out ..
- Be Approachable
I see so many people ignoring other’s when they are in public. I really don’t understand it. Don’t be afraid to speak to people that you don’t know sometimes! We’re all just people at the end of the day, we’re all out to have fun, we’re all ready for a good time, so hey get to know the world around you! Meeting new people is MY FAVOURITE THING. I can’t keep my mouth shut… but keep your manners on point, be polite and be the person that you would want to meet yourself on a night out, rather than the person they want to avoid.
- Keep It Classy With How You Carry Yourself
It really doesn’t matter what you wear. No really it doesn’t. We all love to dress up, make ourselves look our best, go a little out there with our choices – thats all fab and I’m all for that!! But how you hold yourself is a whole different story. Have you ever met those people who just have an amazing energy and ora about them? The ones that don’t care, always laughing, always talking, having the best time? They’re catching your eye because their confidence is infatuating and you can’t help but being drawn in. Don’t be afraid to stand out from the crowd for the right reasons! Have the confidence to wear what YOU want and own it.
- Smile & Eye Contact
Do you know what I mean when I say ‘your eyes tell a story?’. This is completely true. 9/10 I can see a mood by the look someone gives with their eyes. Haters? SMILE BACK! Kill them with kindness before anyone else, and then it’s not your issue anymore, it’s theirs! Smile at people! Flash those pearly-whites of yours ;). This not only makes you more approachable but it shows that you’re noticing other people too. Usually the assumptions we make of other people and the behaviour we give off is a reflection of ourselves… remember that🙌🏻. Be kind always <3
- Stop with the dirty looks!
Can you put your hand on your heart and say you’ve never given someone the most pathetic dirty look on a night out because perhaps you were intimidated by them because you actually didn’t UNDERSTAND them? Now, I know a lot of you probably don’t even realise how you are looking at someone, and your probably just day dreaming or thinking about something completely different, or maybe even ADMIRING their outfit, but the world is a weird place right… and people that you are looking at don’t know this! SO PLEASE try and make a conscious effort to look friendly, you don’t wan’t to be mis understood before people even meet you! I can’t stress this point enough, and if anyone around me is cutting daggers – I will voice it! How people feel is so important to me whether I know them or not. So please tryyyy to show some love to eachother!🙏🏻
- Accessories & Eye Makeup
Get some fire hoops and a statement bag to match with your outfit and slay ittt! Put some sassy eye shadow and lashes on and your sorted!💄 Just because these lil extras make a girl feel on fire regardless!
The first thing about turning people’s heads is that it matters very little whether you are the most attractive person in the room or whether you have the best wardrobe. Most of us couldn’t give a monkeys. If you are truly confident within yourself, don’t you think you’d be way more likely to attract the attention that you want, instead of feeling like you HAVE to wear revealing clothes to get noticed?
WALK TALL, SMILE, wear an outfit you feel COMFORTABLE and CONFIDENT in. You do YOU from WITHIN💝