Let’s just say relationships are near enough impossible sometimes.. purely from lack of understanding and patience. I don’t have time or energy to waste and I am a firm believer in ‘everything happens for a reason’ so when things don’t work out, it’s cuz there not supposed to.
So, for me, it’s easy to ‘drop & bye’ if someone can’t handle the chaos.
For others, it’s not that easy…
Let’s set the record straight – you DESERVE the absolute best and if someone doesn’t see that, then it’s time to chuck them in the f*ck it bucket. Its more important to stay single, and do some serious self-reflection, rather than spending hours and hours every day driving yourself crazy with someone who doesn’t deserve you.
If they want you, they want you. If they don’t put the effort in, it’s because THEY DONT care. Simple. Don’t allow someone to have their cake and eat it.
Why is it that we tell our friends to sack their boyfriend off because we can see that they deserve better, but as soon as it happens to us, we allow it to happen? Because we are now in that position ourselves, so our emotions start to take over instead of thinking logically.
DANGER! GIVE YOURSELF A SHAKE WOMAN!
There are SOO many bullsh*t articles online with titles like ‘how to get the love of your life to love you back’ etc, but COME ON, WAKE UP! Reading an article IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. He either wants to be with you or he doesn’t. That is it.
When your younger and boys tease you, you naturally think its because of they ‘like you’, so now, if you’re in a relationship with someone and they treat you like an idiot, is it because of they ‘like you?’NO NO NO. This is the mind of a 7-year-old boy, not a 25-year-old man, and you SHOULD NOT put up with anyone who treats you like sh*t.
SO WHY DIDN’T HE CALL YOU AFTER YOUR DATE?
‘He didn’t call because he was intimidated’
‘He didn’t text back because he’s too shy’
‘He didn’t text back because he’s afraid of your success’
NONE OF THE ABOVE^^^^
He didn’t text/call you back because he’s just not that into you. So don’t waste your time, and be with someone who appreciates you.