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Criticism Can Make Or Break You

  • Posted on 18/01/201918/01/2019
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Calling someone fat won’t make you any thinner. Calling someone stupid doesn’t make you any smarter. Ruining someone else’s day won’t make yours any better. I could go on and on.

With social media taking over, there is SO MUCH NEGATIVITY & JEALOUSY everywhere! At the moment it seems worse than ever. There really aren’t many who have the right attitude to be able to deal with it, and simply just ignore it. My cut throat personality really does help me to block out everything and turn emotion off to every personal opinion out there, but not all of us are like this and that’s what I’d love to give back to the world – the ability to be unf*ckablewith. (:

I almost feel sorry for the people who feel the need to dampen other people’s successes by bad mouthing them 24/7. How exhausting…

You have to remember this: their opinion of you shows their reflection of themselves. It’s just an act of anger to deflect the negativity that person has on themselves. Not you.

One last time – IT’S NOT YOU!

SELF LOVE CREATES AN UNCONDITIONAL KIND LOVE FOR OTHERS. INSECURITIES CREATE UNNECESSARY HATE FOR OTHERS🙅🏽‍♀️ and in my opinion… be the light in the room and stay humble. Right?

So ask yourself, who do you surround yourself with?

Personally, I surround myself with people who…
– Are loyal
– Respect themselves and others
– Genuine lovely souls
– Who have a passion to grow and succeed
– Are positive and aim to see the positives in all situations

I’m not going to stop what I have created for the sake of others negativity & jealousy (dare I say it)🙈 and if I hear one more person bad mouthing another, im gunna knock em out👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽 just kidding… but I’m massively passionate about this😂

For me, people who tell me no, motivate me to push 10X harder.

So you ride with me & the people around you who are also killing it…. orrr you don’t🤷🏽‍♀️😁 and if you don’t (I say this with love), go and find what’s bringing you down and fix it! We are all here to be happy and no ones self doubt should lead them to be cruel to others.✌🏽 never let anyone tell you what you can and can’t do😘. I am just freaking grateful for all the amazing people that do support, encourage and inspire me every single day. You know who you are.🙏🏽🙌🏽

Don’t let criticism break you (it’s not fact remember), surround yourself with people who support you, who are REAL and who truly want to see you succeed. Take it from someone who means well and truly wants to see you grow and you’ll see improvements daily… or… suck in the negativity from (not so adequate) critiques, and you’ll end up putting yourself down forever. That’s an obvious no.

It’s not just the criticism, it’s the way you react to it that is what takes you from good to great.

Use your logic in these situations, not emotion. Check this blog out it might help you:

https://www.beckiehughes.com/do-you-make-decisions-based-on-logic-or-emotion/🙏🏽💚

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